Hey Lucid’s ….So reluctantly I have found my way back to the dating world and it’s so funny how with each relationship or situation-ship that I leave or leaves me lol, I learn more and more about what I really want and don’t want, deal breakers or acceptables lol if that’s a word… Like while I don’t really care for dating and having to keep meeting new people and telling my story over and over, I feel it is good because again with each encounter it leaves me with more insight as to what I really want in mate and what will keep me happy. Now I am not talking about the basic things like having someone’s who’s Self-Sufficient, Hardworking, God Fearing, Honest, Affectionate, etc.… even though that’s getting harder to find, I mean those eccentric things, things that hold my attention or things that turn me off for that matter. I also learn more about the energies that I release and what I can do better at or pull back on.
So, with all of that being said, I have always been open to dating different type of men whether it was race, culture, lifestyle, or class. I have never been judgmental about those types of things as I feel you never know where you will find love or in who. But I have found that as I am getting older, I want someone more equally yoked or that fits me if that makes sense. I am not as accepting of certain things that I was accepting of when I was younger or last year for that matter. My deal breaker list is growing but I feel I have to relax on some of those things, if not I will grow old alone and I do not want that for myself, I need and want a husband in the near future lol.
My Deal Breakers
- Over Three Children
- No Accomplishments or Commitments
- Children under 16,
- Under 5’9 in height
- No Car
- Has a Roommate
- No employment or business
- Lacks in good Grooming
- Inability to Communicate well or have mature conversations
- Younger than me
The list gets longer, but those are my top deal breakers although I can cancel one or two.
So Lucid’s what are your deal breakers, do you feel mine need to be relaxed, comment below. Let us talk about it….
Till Next Time…..Kisses & Hugs